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Do’s and Don’ts When Working with a Person that you’re Attracted to
Ok… there he or she is, finally; before your very eyes, is a person that out of no where has your heart skipping a beat and your belly tickling within. There is that nervous energy expressing itself all over your body. This person has suddenly appeared in your paradigm, (meaning: causing you to show desire, want and need, in all of its inflectional forms)… and you don’t know where he or she came from…but, they are before you and you don’t know quite how to go about hiding or showing your feelings.
Each of us has a physiological response to people that we are attracted to. It is the brain releasing a chemical called Dopamine. Dopamine is a decarboxylated form of amino acid, found in the adrenal glands. Once two people feel the heightened attraction, the feeling could continue…until the two bodies interact. There is another chemical that is released called Oxytocin, which is attributed to the stimulation of physical interaction.
1. The first thing you’d want to do is keep the relationship professional at all times. Most people are extremely observant, especially in a business environment and where you may think that no one is watching you, believe me, they… very well are. There is someone watching at all times….even in places when you are not in an office. An example is the many people that are caught on hidden cameras.
2. Never tell anyone in the office or in the company, that you are attracted to this person. People don’t mean to…but often times…interoffice attractions can be a good topic of conversation and make for some juicy gossip. What if the other person doesn’t feel as you do and words get back that you are interested? It could make for an uncomfortable work environment.
3. Avoid touching or standing too close to the individual. Many times… when we are attracted to a person…we will subconsciously stand too close or desire to touch the individual…whenever possible. We may not notice that we are doing this…but believe me…others around, could definitely take note.
4. Avoid direct eye contact with the particular individual as often as possible. Allot can be and have been said by and through the eyes. The way you look or stare at a person could speak volumes and there are often trained eyes around to spot that peculiar gleam of desire, sparkling in your eye.
5. Avoid too many kind gestures or favors. People often can spot favoritism and will take notice of it almost immediately. Every one desires to be treated the same so remember…if and when going out to lunch… ask more than just that particular person, if he/she wants you to bring them anything back.
6. Whenever thoughts arise about the individual, list all the reasons why you should or should not get involved. If the no out weighs the yes….then… don’t do it!
Listen to that little voice inside …you know…the one that says yes or no. Your first foray is usually the most important and often times…right on mark!
7. Never make the first move…that is…until the other person has given you an indication that they may be opened to your invitation. No one wants to look or feel foolish. Many times people are merely being friendly and we can take a friendly gesture as meaning much more than what it was intended to be…leaving us feeling ashamed, embarrassed and insecure. Often people will give an indication…such as a warm smile…dancing eyes….or flirtatious body language, when they are interested.
8. If he/she makes a move first…go back to numbers 6 and 7.
9. Watch your body language and the other individual’s body language, as well. There is… and often times… much to be said of the way people move and prance about when they are interested in someone who is close by. Men tend to walk more confidently, displaying a rather suave and debonair approach. Women tend to add a little more flare and flavor to their walk and are often a bit more sexual, provocative and friendlier than usual.
10. Lastly, keep in mind the old saying: Fools rush in where angels fear to tread.
About the Author:
Kathryn Carrington is a freelance writer and published author of fiction, non-fiction and poetry, Editor and sole Writer of Pipey’s Monthly Newsletter, a member of The Black Writers Guild of Maryland, The National Council of Negro Women and The International Society of Poets. Her fictions and non-fictions are registered in The Writers Guild of America. Kathryn has been featured in an article written entitled “Mommy Dearest” (See the Germantown Gazette dated May 17, 2006, by staff writer, Ellyn Wexler, referencing her Book “Mama and Us”. Kathryn has also been featured on 10:10 a.m. Talk Radio,(Meet The Author) promoting her book, “Suicide/The Explosion Within. Kathryn is the Writer of Pipey’s Monthly Newsletter featuring articles and personal interviews about the accomplishments of others. Her books can be ordered on Amazon.com and Barnes and Noble, Target and other Websites.
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Rate this amazing pokemon team?
Charizard
item-life orb
belly drum
flare blitz
earthquake
roost
Dragonite
focus sash
outrage
earthquake
roost
fire punch
Swellow
abilitly-guts
toxic orb
whirlwind
rain dance
facade
protect
Jolteon
item- not sure
thunderbolt
thunder
rain dance
hyper beam
Scizor
occa berry
x-scissor
swords dance
roost
iron head
Kingdra
ability-swift swim
waterfall
dragon dance
giga impact
yawn
if u think i could make it better somehow tell me. and what item should jolteon hold?
@ Charizard – It should be Substitute, Belly Drum, Fire Punch and Earthquake with a Salac Berry. Otherwise any decent water could OHKO with Surf after you Belly Drum.
@Dragonite – Try Dragon Dance, Outrage, Earthquake and Fire Punch instead, with Life Orb
Swellow’s fine.
@ Jolteon – He is primarily a sub/agi passer, so his moveset should be Thunderbolt, Baton Pass, Substitute/Agility and Hidden Power (Ice)
Scizor’s fine, but put on a Life Orb
@ Kingdra – Giga Impact should be replaced with Ice Beam (For fellow dragons) or Return.
7/10 I guess.
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